I Am Quite Intentional About My Evolution.

That’s why I do not excuse myself for making bad decisions or taking menial actions.
I Will Serve, But I Will Not Beg.
I Will Respect, But I Will Not Cower.
I Will Lead, But I Will Not Lord It Over.
I Will Not Play “Try And See” With My Life.
One Of My Rules In Life Is That The Only Person You Should Try “Taste And See” With Is God.
“Taste And See That The Lord Is Good.”
That Remains The Prerogative Of The Sovereign Lord Of The Universe.
Human Nature Is Not A Rubik’s Cube Or A Guess Game.
Millions Of Centuries Serve As An Accessible Library On Human Nature. So, I’m Not Sure What You’re “Tasting.”
Another One Is “When People Show You Who They Are, Believe Them.”
I Have A Myriad Of Experiences To Prove To You That People Do Not Change.
They Just Evolve Into Their Truest And Highest Selves.
But I Won’t Share.
Experience Is The Best Teacher Here.
Another One Is “Stay Royal. Even When You’re Surrounded By Common People.”
Nobility Is One Of The Few Essences I Try To Trademark About My Personality.
The Ability To Be Graceful. To Be Regal.
To Be The Queen.
To Exist In A Way That Makes You Both Loved And Feared.
The Next Thing Is “Be Powerful.”
Take Account Of Your Values And Valuables.
One Of The Things Rulers Did Every Set Period Was To Take Account Of Their Wealth.
The King’s Coffers Dare Not Run Dry.
The Royal Treasury Dare Not Be Found Light.
Because Value Is Power.
And I’m Not Talking Only About Money.
Sit Down And Write A List Of All The Things That Make You Valuable.
“I Speak Compellingly.”
“I Have An Irresistible Voice.”
“I Have Over 50 Certifications.”
“I Have An Attractive Smile.”
“I Have A Charming Personality.”
“I Know The Top Dogs In So And So Industry.”
“I Have Great Social Capital.”
“I’m A Great Builder And Manager Of Relationships.”
“I’m Extremely Savvy With Financial Matters.”
“I Have Over 10 Years Of Work Experience Across Multiple Sectors.”
“I Have 10 Awards From Globally Recognised Organisations.”
Sit Down And Take Into Account What You Have.
Knowledge Is Power.
When You Know What You Have, You Know What To Bring To The Negotiation Table.
When You Don’t Know What You Have, Negotiation Becomes Desperate For You.
Desperate People Always Get The Bad End Of The Deal.
I’ve Been Broke Without N100 In My Account, But Turned Down 6 Figure Gigs Because I Smelled Disrespect.
I Know Too Much About Myself To Believe I Can Stay Broke Beyond A Particular Time.
Never Ever.
I Don’t Want To Write More On That Matter.
But, Be Powerful.
The Kind Of Power I Aim For Is Scary.
Which Leads Me To The Final Point, “Be A Good Person.”
At The Base Of Your Success Mountain, Plant Goodness. Kindness.
The Ability To Be Humane.
A While Back, I Showed Kindness To People Who Hurt Me Deeply.
Very Deeply.
I Looked At Myself In The Mirror And Smiled At The Goodness Of My Heart.
I Don’t Need To Withhold Goodness From You To Prove A Point.
This Doesn’t Mean I Give You A Chance To Hurt Me Again.
Nope.
I Draw Ginormous Lessons From Minute Experiences.
And Sometimes, I Can Be Your Karma.
But I Will Not Become Bitter And Vengeful, Giving You The Power To Turn Me Into Something Other Than What I Am.
Never Ever.
But Goodness + Power = An Unstoppable Force.
And That’s Where I Am Headed.
This Article Is ONLY For People Who Operate On My Frequency.

Yours Always,
The Talk Queen,
Neeta Rare